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Another One If You Are Single On Valentine’s Day

Here is another list of what you can do on Valentine’s Day if you are single. Take your pick or pick them all!

Things to do on Valentine’s Day

1. This would be a great day to give your single blessedness some thought. Create a plan to find your ‘one’. What do you need to do and work on to attract the kind of person you want to spend your life with? Do you need to find ways of making your happy first before you share that happiness with someone else? Are there things you need to learn - like self-confidence and assertiveness? Do you need to start believe in yourself and see the person that’s easy to fall in love with?
2. Or perhaps you need to look after yourself, your health. Heard about endorphins? They’re the happy hormones. When you exercise, more of them are released into your body and you feel happier. So get going!
3. I have a list of all the romantic films available. So throw on your PJ’s, make some popcorn and line up your favourite drink before the DVD love fest.
4. What about pampering yourself - whatever that means to you. It could be a long hot bath, listening to your favourite music and enjoy being single.

You know that saying “What goes around comes around?” Well what if you spend this day making other people happy? Here are a few things you can do to make Valentine’s Day more meaningful.

1. Make your own Valentine’s Day card - like we used to when we were at school. Perhaps make 5 of them, inscribed with your own messages and send them to 5 people you deeply care about - friends, family or even your favourite shop assistant. Or it could be someone totally random, but you believe would be happy to receive a card.
2. Invite another single friend for a walk in the park, some ice cream and/or a movie.
3. Send flowers or chocolates to someone who could use some cheering up anonymously and sign the card, “You Are Special”.
4. Spend Valentine’s Day in a more meaningful way. Go to an orphanage or a hospital where people are truly alone and spend some time with them. This way, you are giving something to someone who truly needs it - like companionship, smiles, laughters - the usual things you would enjoy if you were in a committed relationship.

I guarantee that the smiles you put on their faces will adequately make up for your single status.

So are you geared up for Valentine’s Day now? Let me know how you get on!

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